哈哈...
终于找到自己的空间了....
至少在这里说些什么也没有人会管我....
最近,我的友谊受到了考验...
与同窗多年的朋友吵了一次又一次，还差点就闹翻了....
很累!
很奇怪,为什么我自己就不能够容忍别人多一点?
为什么就不能学会体谅别人?
为什么就不能学会大量一点, 就因为我的小气而搞到我身边的朋友一个又一个的被我激怒了...
后悔也无济于事...
伤口是会复原, 但却留下了伤疤....
唯一能做的, 就是如我哥说的, 把那难看的伤口, 尽我能力的让别人一那伤疤为荣, 以那伤疤成为一个教训, 一个属于我的回忆.....
话说回来, 今天是我妈生日, 所以便和朋友庆祝去了...
没煮晚饭(连午餐也是我打包的)....
早吩咐弟弟买晚饭回来, 哪知他却去朋友家玩,玩到不知道时间....
搞到我补习回家后没晚饭吃, 还跑到远处买东西。哪知, 那KOPITIAM 没开...
怎样啊? 煮即食面咯!
看到了你们在部落格那里开战，
ReplyDelete但是，我不了解你们发生了什么事。
有时侯，朋友之间吵吵架，也很普通，
我也和同窗老友吵过架，
但是，过了一段时间，又是雨过天晴，
或许，这能增进你们之间的感情，
让你们更珍惜、了解双方。
尝试放下，先让一步，
必定能让你们和好如初。
请记得，其中一方一定要主动，尝试放下。
this sentence is so so true....
ReplyDeleteonce heard my prs teacher talk about it.....years ago.
when the ajks were "playing politics".
till now, i can still see the aftermath of the incidence.
scar will always be there. *sigh*
i've got loads of friends and relatives, boys or girls
ReplyDeletethey face the same problems.
friends betray them, misunderstood, quarrels etc
but in my opinion, to friends, we give and take....
its not like we are using them. we exchange what we look for
for what they look for.
so give and take, avoid complications and misunderstanding.
if they are you best friends, they will always be. cheers
Agree...
ReplyDeletebut there will always be a limit....
once it exceed, it will burst then....
scar formed, ppl gt hurted...
sumtimes, the more u avoid, the more complications and misunderstanding happened, i once thought that friends shuld be sincere to each other...
but my sincere turns to be hurting my friends, i gt lost....
或许男生比较健忘吧!
ReplyDelete女生不一样, 都比较小气....
“其中一方一定要主动....”
对啊! 可是我们就是不肯...
万一我的主动却换来了拒绝, 那不是更伤吗?
只希望一切都能随着时间而逐渐淡化, 一切雨过天晴...
Actually life is like that.While looking at ur blog,im thinking what had happened b4 in my life.-------a lot of the things
ReplyDeleteSome frens betray me n misunderstand abt me too..I neglect all these n dont mind how they think abt me.
Be who im on today.If i think im right i'll continue to behave in d same way.I wont change.Im quite arrogant.He!he!
Its undeniable that people used to think we are taking advantages on them esp schoolmates.I've such an experience b4.
I used to be not a talkative stdnt in the class,unless have something to discuss with them.So some of my sch frens said me tend to use them from time to time.I mean--when i've things to talk to them,i talk to them.iN other words,i ignore them when i've tasks to do.
Anyway what i hope is ppl can forgive us n forget abt our mistakes.N they can critics me in d front.N they don't
betray me at d back.What'd done is done,cannot be done again.The only thing is looking forward.Forget abt d past.Correcting mistakes is very crucial.
N im telling u d truth,its quite difficult 2 find a sincere fren esp 4 stdnts who r in 1st class.
Until 2day,I haven't find a sincere fren.D only hope is to find黑马王子. WAkakakakaka.....................(JUST JOKING)
We are nt encouraged to find 黑马王子now as study is d priority.Talk this after entering university.
Mee chin.
~Cheer n smile every second
i quite agree...
ReplyDeleteboys mainly juz fight with fist n forget abt it. hehe
我也和一位老友吵过，
ReplyDelete真的，
很不好受。
也许吧，
主动，
会很难，
因为面子。
可是一个人的主动，
我会觉得，
我会很珍惜，
因为会让我感动。
女孩不一定比男生小气，
也许男生懒惰，
不想记吧！
这也不是不好，
只是，
有点逃避的味道。
hmmm。。。
见仁见智吧，
听过，
“下雨后，
一定会有彩虹，
不是我们没看见，
是内心的耿耿于怀把眼睛蒙住了。“
开心点吧，
雨后，
真的会天晴。
相信我。
p/s: 哈哈！开了新的空间，至少，我不用再用anonymous留言了。
但原我真的看见彩虹....
ReplyDelete没人叫你用anonymous啦...
即使用, 我也认得出是你啦!